Dr Deihl at ACC the one who had to tell me about Mira's cancer... gave me a pet loss book. It's a workbook sort of with question and answer sections. I did the one titled "how well are you dealing with the loss of your pet?" Out of a possible 1(best) to 16 (worst) I got a 4. I was prabably closer to a 12 when this all started. I couldn't done it without you. Everyone who posted me a hand and helped pick me up time after time. I still have a long way to go but at least i'm doing it right. At the moment I just feel meloncolly too tired to feel much of anything.