Marianne, I have uploaded a picture of Lena in her prime and the way she always looked at me, and to me. It's called Lena's new haircut #4. Please use that one on the Memorial page. I have been looking at pictures for hours and even though they make me cry, some of them have made me smile when I remember how much she was loved by all of us. It is still so quiet here...the others are sad as well, I think, or maybe just processing. I don't know, it could be my imagination.