There is a gate, but when we are home we keep it open for our cat, who won't come any further than 4 feet from the stairs. He's afraid of our two rescues who would leave him alone if he would just stop running away from them! With the gate open he can still feel like he's a part of the family and can get down quickly and hide if they chase him. Our older dog who died in 2011 loved him and he loved her, so it confuses him that these two rush at him. Lena used to taunt him when she was the queen bee and even though he is huge, he used to run away. Now that she is so different, they tolerate each other and sometimes share the space by the stairs. We will figure out something high enough to keep Lena from taking another header, and low enough that he can hop over it without getting hurt. His hips dislocate sometimes when he runs or jumps.
Tomorrow Lena will have her blood work done and I will sit with her for the two hours and we will see what it shows. I don't want to raise the Vetoryl any higher.
Has Molly changed the way she interacts with you? Lena used to be a part of me, attached to me all the time. Now she will only sit with me for a few minutes and then wants to get down. She used to stand up on my legs and ask to be picked up...I wish I remembered the last time she did that. I miss everything about the way it used to be. I miss hearing her nails on the floor, now she mostly slides; I miss hearing the way she used to eat her food in the bowl, now I make it special because she stopped eating the kibble by itself; I miss how she used to cuddle up next to me in bed, now she sleeps on the other side of the bed...I just miss so many things...