The house is so empty and quiet without you. I used to get annoyed when you'd grab a squeaky toy and bite it so it shrieked over and over. I remember how that stupid chicken would squeak so loud that I eventually cut a hole in it--basically slit its throat, haha--so it wouldn't squeak anymore. But now I wish I could hear any squeaky toy. Your Brian put them up on the kitchen counter because he said it would kill him to accidentally step on one and not hear/see you come running. He choked up when he said that, and you know he doesn't cry much. I've left your other toys on the floor where they were. Including that last ball that you tried to disembowel. I was watching I video I took of you when you were digging away like a crazy person at the halloween monkey stuffed toy. Guess I got that in November 2012. You had that crazed look on your face that I know so well. The monkey with its disemboweled head is on the floor of your Brian's office and I don't want to move it. He put your blanket in the washing machine and I took it out because I don't want to wash it. It still smells like you.
I'm trying to picture you as you were when you still felt good--bringing us the biggest sticks possible so we could throw them over and over. Pretending to throw them and then watching you run; we loved to harass you. Sticks were your passion in life. Part of me wishes we could have taken you to the dog park before you went, but I don't think you would have enjoyed it. You wouldn't be able to run run run everywhere, pick up the hugest stick (which always caused everybody to comment on it), run down to the creek and plop yourself down and take a huge drink, then you'd be all wet and running through the dirt/dust so when we were ready to go home you'd be dirty and muddy. I didn't mind because I knew that meant you'd had a good time. I'm hoping we can make some kind of donation to the dog park in your memory. That was your favorite place on earth. You knew what the words "dog park" meant.
The other day you perked up when I accidentally said "Petsmart." I should have spelled it out, haha. Toward the end you still perked up when I said, "Who is it? It's your Brian! Your Brian's home!" But you didn't run to the door, and you didn't run to get a squeaky toy so you could bring it to him when he stepped inside. That showed how bad you really felt. So many times I would come home from work, and if there was a squeaky toy in the kitchen, as I opened the door I would hear you run out of the crate and run to get that toy. This is the way I want to remember you. How you wanted us to throw the toy toy and yet you would not let us get it! You wanted us to *try* to get it, haha. You were our little brat. Speaking of, it's very weird not to have to put up the trash can at night! Don't have to worry about you getting into the trash anymore.
It was my privilege to take care of you, even cleaning up after you. I didn't mind because I loved you. Mama still loves you, baby gir. But I know that at least now, I'm the only one hurting. It's not you hurting anymore. You're not struggling to breathe or looking sad because you can't enjoy the things you enjoyed. You're free and at peace. It was my privilege to be there when you passed. Me petting you and Brian scratching under your chin. I didn't even know the moment you passed. I just noticed that you weren't struggling to breathe anymore. And that brought me a lot of comfort. You were still warm and just looked like you were sleeping peacefully. Which you haven't been able to do in months.
I will write more later. I think I'm getting sick. I think all the emotion of the past couple days, and the past six weeks, and the past six months really, is catching up with me. I slept all day yesterday. I just don't feel very well. I honestly don't know what to do with myself now that I don't have to worry about you. The dr. said that only now would I realize how much of a burden of worry I've been carrying since all this heart stuff started. She's been so great through all this.