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Oh, but it will be nice to have him home where he belongs. I would give anything just about to have my daughter's ashes here with me.
I know Scoop is watching over you with all the tenderness he has, waiting for that day when you will smile through your tears at the memories.
Hugs,
Leslie and the gang
Vicki, glad you will have Scoop in your home. We have Lulu in the family room with a nice framed picture of her taken about four or five years ago. Also, her paw print we had done. It was winter when Lulu passed, so cremation seemed like a great idea, and you know I do like the idea, whether it's people or pets.
You know you mentioned remembering our pets, and I am planning on doing that for our Lulu. For example my photo album, which you can see of Lulu holds the images I will choose from. I also plan on using some short video clips, (thank goodness for the cellphone cameras) though the early years, back in the early 2000s, the quality isn't the best.
My theme will revolve around the Christmas' as I believe there will be pictures from everyone of them, with some video. I have done this for my dad when he passed away, 25 minute story of his life and just recently did one for the village of Romeo, Michigan, a 60 minute story of it's first 175 years, as the town celebrates that this year.
BUT, I am waiting on the word, that I can say, and that word is 'hired'. I enjoy doing this, but it takes time, and I don't want (can't) afford to spend more time on this activity.
Just a thought on what you can do, it's fun and you can use free software, such as Windows Movie Maker (adequate for free, though there is better software but $$$ ...)
Take care, and when I do have the video, slide show done, I will post a link to it.
Oh, Vicki...my heart breaks for you! I can truly empathize since I just lost my Rudy early yesterday morning...we were supposed to go get him Friday also to bring him home for recovery from his surgery. Instead we will go pick him up to bring him home for his burial...it will take a long time for both of us to heal but with God's help it will happen! Cry out to Him when you feel that overwhelming pain and despair...He loves you!!! Everywhere I turn I am reminded of my sweet precious Rudy but I am trying to focus on and be thankful for the ten years of love that we shared. I have one of his favorite stuffed toys beside me right now and I will sleep with it next to my heart for a long time I'm sure! Your Scoop was absolutely adorable and I know he knew how much you loved him even though you could not be there when he passed away. I was not with Rudy and I am praying so hard that he was too sedated to know it...God knows what is best and what we can bear...I am thankful that my last memory of him was happy and full of love as I gave him his last hugs and kisses. I will be praying for you!!! Thank you for your sweet comment about Rudy's pictures...
Oh Vicki...here is a big ((((((((((HUG)))))))))) for you. I know exactly how you feel. I so dreaded the day we picked Lulu up after her creamation, but I must tell you bringing her home was so healing. She was back where she belonged, with loving parents and loving cats. Our Nellie Cat went over to Lulus ashes and began to sniff the box and rub against it...she knew her best friend was in that box. It was heart breaking. But it was also healing. I am sure you will feel the same way I did. It was so nice to be able to go to her box and talk to her. It takes sooooo long to feel better. It has been 5 months for Lulu and I still cry everyday for her. We have a foster dog, Stanley...Pit Bull, who I just love, but he is not Lulu. He does however take the edge off the pain. I can hold him and cry now, instead of just crying alone, and he comforts me.
I wish you the very best honey. I think of you often, and wonder how you are coping. My love and prayers are with you honey and I'll be thinking of you when you pick up Scoop tomorrow.
Love,
Moo
Hugs and love , Vicki, always thinking about you, none of us will ever forget Scoop.
Lots of hugs Vicki.
Talking helps me to get through the tough times, so talk away sweetie...we're listening.
When you're up to sharing more details from the IMS, please know that you might be helping others on this site by sharing, as painful as it is.
Bringing Scoop home will be a very mixed emotional day, but Scoop will be home to be with his loving family and I do hope that gives you a little peace.
(((HUGS)))
Vicki:
Thinking of you and Scoop at this most trying time. Praying you can get thru this. God Bless you and precious Scoop.
Patti
Vicki: I am sorry for your loss. I know exactly how you feel because I had to put down my Cocker a year ago. While painful, it is of comfort that we did everything we could for our babies, and when it was time to go we allow them to go with dignity and love-- which is exactly what they gave to us. Remember your baby with all your heart especially the things that made you laugh and smile (that helped me a lot). And I completely understand how hard it is picking up the ashes. I started bawling at the vet when I picked them up, and I still have them with me. Sending a big, big hug and plenty of pup kisses (from Rummer :)
Maria
Vicki
Just thinking about you today as you bring Scoop home-right where he belongs.It was a blessing when I finally had my Fella's ashes home with me even though it was quite a shock to find them in the mail!:eek::eek:.I do hope you find some comfort in bringing him home and feel his presence.Thoughts and prayers are with you.
Patty