Tipper - adrenal tumor/breathing issues

Addy:
What a terrible thing to say to you. I don't blame you one bit. I can take it if you want to talk about me, or make smart comments about me, but when you stoop so low as to start with my Tipper, I will cut you off in an instant. Nothing is more precious to me than the life of this dog. I know how cruel people can be. A few years ago my parrot Sweety Bird which I lived with and talked to for 38 years became ill with cancer. She eventually got to where I knew she started to suffer and I had to have her put to sleep. It killed me every day I woke up and she wasn't there to say helllo to me. I was devastated to say the least. I did everything I could for her, just as I am doing for Tipper. One day a neighbor stopped me as I was walking Tipper and said, I guess you have some money tied up in that bird?? I didn't answer and she said I would be taking the money and going on a vacation and spending it on myself before I schelled it out for a bird!! I kept walking because the things that were ready to come out of my mouth would not have been good. I don't go to anyones house here and ask what their business is and what they spend their money on, I could care less. I just want to know where people get off, getting into your personal business, especially when all you do is say hello and goodbye. Where is the entitlement coming from?? It's one thing not to care about animals lives, then it's another to hurt someone with your stupid comments, just stay away and say nothing! I think part of the problem in my neighborhood is a lot of the people are retired and have little to do. Because I am always busy at home, and don't like gossiping about people they are offended I do not want to be like them. Everyone on here knows what a full time job it is with a Cushings dog. I have a sickly cat, a bird and a Yorkie to care for. I don't have time, nor would I make time for their crap, but I am still cordial to all of them as I walk my dog. That is why I like animals, they are better to you and for you then some people! God Bless You and sweet Zoe.
Patti

Patti,
You Go Girl!!
I have had those comments said to me on several occasions. Some by so called family. What is said is hurtful and unsolicited! :mad:It is nobody's business what you choose to spend your money on! We are under enough stress just doing what we need to do for our babies every day and figuring out how we are going to pay for it all. They need to be supportive or keep quiet!:mad: I have had several dogs during my lifetime and have loved them all. Buddy, however is different. He is my soul dog. We connect in a way that transcends all relationships. When he passes, a big part of me (the best part) will go with him. I do not have the energy or time to listen to people who do not understand this! You are a wonderful mommy and we all love and support you and Tipper.:) The rest can go as far away from you as possible!

Love and Hugs,
Kathy and Buddy:cool:

Patti,
I've been having a few bad days lately so wasn't able to respond right away but read your whole post and was so overjoyed by all the good news!!!What a great report!And I'm glad that doctor came through for you.As a nurse,sometimes the best doctors don't always have the best bedside manner but they do amazing work and whoever is working for them,knows that they better give meticulous care or else!!

As far as your neighbors' conversation that you overheard...steam was coming from my ears reading it!:mad:.I no longer have any use for people who are so mean.People can be so opinionated and so cruel.My golden Kelsey got hit by a car when she was only 3 and as a result,suffered incontinence for the rest of her life.In the beginning it was difficult,but I found a great diaper for her in the house and she lived to be 13 1/2.She was my first dog and she had a wonderful life.The vet always commented on what a great job I did and how good her skin looked.When she passed,a co-worker commented"oh,I would have put her down immediately,its' all about quality of life".:eek:.To this day,I still feel disgust when I see her.Don't mess with my dogs!:D.She is a little older now and I so want to tell her that even if she has her mind,and her mobility is intact,if she ever should start to experience a little incontinence,well then,can I pull the plug?:mad:.I know it's mean,but I can't stand people's ignorance!I'm going thru that now with losing my Fella and it really hurts.:mad:On the other hand,can you imagine going thru life and never knowing that love that we feel for our babies?They will never understand what that feels like,how sad!!

Anyhow,just chiming in and wanted to say I'm so happy for you and Tipper!You're a great mom and I guess i'm still in the "angry' phase of grief when I say-hope your neighbor finds somebody else to do her errands!:).
Hugs to you and Tipper
Patty

So thinking about the posts has given me an idea, why don't you collect a little of Tipper's poo and put it on your neighbors door step, oops did I just say that....to be honest I did that once, just once....people can be so rude and say dumb stuff, just remember we are all animal lovers here and that would make for lots of poo lol.....take care

Letti I have felt sad today and that made me smile! Pooping someones doorstep, don't mess with you ;)

Morning Patti

How's Miss Tipper today, is she talking to you now? Tia would go to bed all afternoon when she came back from her ACTH tests wouldn't really talk to me. Wish they could understand its to help them, I always told her but not sure she got it. Am sure Tipper will be back to herself today. Takes a while for people to feel normal so am sure it must be the same for dogs

I am so sorry you had to deal with those people on that already stressful day, it never ceases to amaze me how mean some people can be, what difference does it make to them. I always think their lives must be pretty non-existent if you and tipper is all they have to talk about. I was more annoyed that she has taken advantage of your kindness and taken your money then shown you no loyalty. Sometimes people just don't think so I hope she feels really awful now she deserves too!

I was so pleased to read how healthy they said she was and to know its only little in her head must be such a relief, now if she does something a little out of the ordinary that won't be your first thought. I did smile when I read she had a moment with the German Shepard I imagined her all wonky giving it large, she is clearly such a personality.

How are you doing today, has your lupus settled down?

Big hug to you kisses to Tipper the Ripper

Mel
Xxxx

Mel,Kathy,Patty,& Letti:
Thank you all for your response. I have been quite sick over these neighbors who think for some reason they need to involve themselves in my business. You haven't heard the best one yet though! Yesterday I opened the door going out of my garage to find an envelope addressed to me. It was a letter from the lady with the cat that I have helped all the time. She proceeded to blame me for everything!!! First she said I should have never come to her house and spouted off to her like I did as I could have given her a heart attack or a stroke. She failed to mention how this got my Lupus going, a new rash all over my face, and since Sunday has made me ill. Then she proceeded to tell me I have a beautiful home and should be thankful for it and stop crying about my dog all the time. I could care less about this house, I would give it to anyone who could cure my Tipper!. I worked my you know what off for everything I have, nothing was handed to me and I have always been an overly grateful person. If I want to cry 24/7 that is my right, don't come around and don't call me if you don't like it. She never said anything about the zillions of things I have done for her. She has called my house at 6:00 in the morning for me to fix her smoke alarm. None of the other neighbors would put up with that. I thought I was angry before, well when I read this I could have gone to the moon. This letter was all about her, very self serving . When I have something to say to someone I do not write them notes. I am not in high school again. I talk to them face to face. The gull of this woman really kills me. Have to think if I will even acknowledge it.
Anyway Tipper is acting funny this morning, and it is because it is cloudy and you can feel the moisture in the air. Last night Tipper was doing that struggling to breathe again. I really need to get this on camera so I can show it to a Dr. Mel my Lupus was doing ok until the neighbors had to get me in a tizzy. Kathy I know exactly what you mean about Buddy being your soul dog. That is my Tipper, we are joined at the hip. I have had many dogs in my lifetime, she is undoubtedly the closest to me, and the most special of all of them. I feel like my life cannot go on without her. Last night as she lay there sleeping I watched her as I always do, and was just saddened by her appearance. Her head is so boney, all her muscles are going away, and her rib cage sticks out so prominently. She is just a shadow of the very muscular, tuff, never back down 17lb ball of fierceness she once was. I am so saddened to see her look this way, and sometimes wonder if she realizes what is happening to her. All the struggling, worrying, researching, fighting with Dr's etc. is all worth it when she wake me up in the morning with her kisses. She gets the biggest kick out of thinking she woke me up!! I just lay there with my eyes closed and listen to the cute things she does to try and get me up. She even sat on my head once. I pray God has mercy on her and lets her stay with me for a long time to come. Here's hoping for a good weekend for everyone. Blessings
Patti

Hi Patti, HUGS to you and Tipper. Sounds like you need it today.

You're right, it is very high schoolish behavior and I don't know if you should address it or ignore it.

I'd probably just ignore it. Maybe tear it up and put in the garbage when you know she is looking across
the street.
Neighbors are busy bodies, especially when they have nothing better to do with their time.
Just do your own thing. Not all your friends will be like that one turned out to be. Keep the good ones who are understanding and supportive and just don't waste your time with the others. Life is too short and too precious for all this drama. (lord save us from the drama queens) :)

hugs,
Sharlene and Molly Muffin

Big hug from me too

I vote ignore, rip it up outside I like that idea. Clearly she is probably expecting a reaction. Don't give her one, do it when you next take Miss Tipper for a walk!

I know she may have physically changed but just remember what the IMS said about how healthy she actually is

Mel
Xxxxxx

Can you imagine what an empty, sad life folks like your neighbor must live? How much they are missing out on with their narrow perspectives. Cuddling up to pics from a trip just ain't the same as cuddling up with a warm, fuzzy body. They can have their trips, beauty appointments, jet skis, new fashions, and all the rest - just give me the love of my babies and the world is dang near perfect!

Everyone :
There was someones baby on here who passed away from tracheal disease. Does anyone remember who it was? Please let me know. Blessings
Patti