Hey Sus,
crazy day today, not much time but a couple thoughts:
does Bob pick Bailey up the same way you do or does he approach from a different anlge, side, etc?
We taught Zoe to like being picked up with a clicker and lots of, you know, what else right, chicken of course.
fast action treats (think jackpot) to prime her up and to short circuit her brain while she is on the floor, Bob picks her up the same way you do and you click and shove more chicken in her mouth while loudly praising, he holds her only for a few seconds then puts her down, watch her body language and only practice a few pick ups at a time then wait until later. Try to increase the amount of time he holds her bit by bit.
Not sure if I explained all correctly but it did work for us, but we had to reinforece it often.
talk to you tonight:):)
