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Tina, I am here, too. Right by your side. You are being strong for Jasper, and we are being strong for you. Any time you need us, just close your eyes and let us lift you up. Please give Jasper an enormous hug for all his family here. We love you both dearly!
I'm so sorry, Tina...my prayers are with you and Jasper. Sometimes life is just not fair.
Dear Tina,
First, many hugs to you and belly rubs to Jasper. I know how terrifying and devastating a cancer diagnosis is to all connected.
From now on, live in the moment, doing your best not to look at the next minute, day, week, or month. Just right now is all that matters....right now is all any of us are promised. Do the things you and Jasper love most, give him the foods he loves most, talk to him constantly always letting him know how grateful you are for this moment with him. Hug him, hold him, carry him, touch him as much as possible, spoil him rotten every minute of the day. Be positive and upbeat for both of your sakes - even if you have to fake it, which you will.
When those times come in which you are simply over-come and cannot pretend one second longer, find your quiet, safe space and fall apart. Cry, sob, scream, barter, bargain, beat your fists on the wall, break something - whatever it takes so that you can return to Jasper with a smile and hug. Where ever that quiet, safe place is you tape a note to the wall that says, "I am not alone" - and know deep in your Soul that is a truth no one and nothing can take from you.
More hugs and belly rubs,
Leslie and the gang
I do all my crying and screaming in the car...of course it works better at night when no one can see you...it's a little embarrassing in the morning when people stare at me.
Oh Tina, I'm sorry to hear this news... but thank you for having the courage and strength to come and share it with us. Now we know how to pray and can stand with you and Jasper, holding you both close. Many hugs for both of you. Group hugs are the best.
Shana
My heart goes out to you and Jasper -- it is so hard to be strong under these circumstances but we know you can be that person for Jasper. Hold him close and please give him a hug from us!
Tina {{{{HUGS}}}} crap and crap again. Anger is natural. It is so unfair after you have both survived so much.
Every day and minute counts for so much. I know you will enjoy every single moment with him.
Tina, life deals some unfair turns and I understand how unfair this is for Jasper.
We will always be here for you and Jasper. We hold you both close to our hearts.
I have no wise words, just that I care.
Yes, we care sooooo much Tina. (((((((Hugs)))))))
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Thinking of you both.