Buddy, The Mighty Lizard Hunter - Suspected Pituitary Macro Tumor

Oh goodness Kathy, Rosebud sounds so sweet named for Buddy, I got Simba when my dog Belle was getting older, so I would never be without a furbaby....I don't think you can put a time limit on grieving, some days I still think of my first dog Belle and shed a few tears..just follow your heart and everything will work out, sending hugs sweet Mama!

Kathy, I am checking back in. How are you doing? Oh gosh, puppies! I completely agree with the sentiments that Addy and Sharlene posted. When I lost my precious Dakota, I already had Jasper to help me through, and to help him through because he grieved also. There is no time limit and I know you will follow your heart when the time is right.

More hugs,
Tina

No puppy for now. My folks will eventually come around, but right now they will have no part of it. Life with 80+-year-olds is often a challenge anyway. I do not want to make it any harder. The loss of losing Buddy is just way too raw for them right now. I need more time to pass so that I can wear them down, so they are willing to entertain the idea. A puppy needs to feel wanted by every member of the family.:o:(

Kathy

If it were up to me, I would go and pick up my new puppy. Rosebud would join my family here and now. But, I have others to consider and responsibilities that never end. I don't often get to do what I really want, but with Buddy around, it was always okay. Now he isn't and I feel cheated.

The parrot over the fence in the next yard has been making all kinds of noise trying to get Buddy to react. Buddy normally runs along the fence barking when he hears the bird. The parrot has been yelling,screeching, squawking, and talking to no avail. He hears me outside and thinks Buddy is there too.:(

Aww Kathy, (((hugs))). There are so many reminders of Buddy because he was such a big part of your life. And I so understand how you feel cheated. It is not easy caring for elderly parents, that is a huge responsibility. Having Buddy there made things alright.

I will check back in later Kathy, I need to wait until most of these fireworks are over. :mad:

Go take care of Jasper Tina. That's what us mommies do! We ease our baby's worries. Thank you for taking a break to check on me.:)

I can't bring a puppy into a home where it is not wanted. My folks don't feel about fur babies the way I do. Xxxxxx

Oh Kathy :-)
Puppies are so tempting aren't they?

Dad and I recently met and snuggled 2 adorable Doxie sisters:-)
I told him that now wasn't the time. We agreed that we wouldn't stress Daisy out like that.

The perfect time will come and you'll know it.

This would be the perfect time for me. It is summer and I'm off. However it's not the perfect time for my folks and I have to respect that.:( It is just so dang quiet and solemn without any fur babies in the house. Buddy had an enormous presence. He was always smack dab in the middle of everything! It feels like all the joy drained out of my house and my life when Buddy died. It would be better if I was working. At least I would have the kids at school who need me. My folks need me in a much different way. I am willing to stand up to my responsibilities and I have been doing that. I love my folks, they are good people, but I need more. Buddy filled that void. He is gone and I feel empty inside.

Back from my mother's house..had to do a quick check in to see how you've been doing.
It looks like you've had lots of posts to keep you busy..also looks like you're still not getting much sleep. :( I understand that though...it's hard to fall asleep with all the emotions you're feeling.
Wow...those puppies do sound sweet. I was thinking that the summer is a good time for you as your are home for awhile.
I hope you get a pup as soon as you can/want. The summer is such good timing for you. By the time school would start back up you would have a new pup pretty well acclimated. So many dogs are in need....you can easily find one who needs you like crazy! They are there just waiting to be loved and give love right back.
As for your parents...well...the thing is they say they don't want it now but having a pet around is so good for the elderly.
My mom-who is 93 was very confused and was acting really batty this evening but when I put Trixie on the bed she immediately calmed down and got her bearings..(well for a little while at least)! :confused:
Well...I'm sure somehow it will work out but you should have that joy of a dog back in your life as soon as you want. I love the name you've chosen if you end up with a female...Rosebud..so sweet and a lovely way to honor Buddy.
Barbara